How to flirt. ;)

I naturally consider myself a natural flirt. I know that is bad sometimes, but oh well. I have a friend who does not know how to flirt. At all. I know I did a post like this before, but I wanted to do another one.

1. Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in something attention-grabbing, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself and slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence.

2.  Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun. Don't be afraid to tease him a little! (Just don't go overboard—the point is to be playful, not mean.)

3.  Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often.

4.  Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch, and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him.

• Sometimes, he will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back.
• Another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier."
• Other subtle ways to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder, fix his sweatshirt string, casually tapping him while laughing, resting your head on his shoulder if you’re tired, or playfully punching or tickling him as a joke. These will all signify comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner.

5.  Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes, people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the totally wrong way to give a compliment. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Sometimes, complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.


6.  Show interest. Get to know him by asking about, and showing interest in, his life. Ask about his interests, jobs, family, friends, etc.

Sexual Wednesday

How many of you guys have heard of Jenna Marbles? She is hilarious right? Well, for those of you who don't know who she is I suggest you go check her out. She is a YouTube star. She makes videos every Wednesday. Which she likes to call "Sexual Wednesday".

Jenna Marbles came to prominence with her video "How To Trick People Into Thinking You're Good Looking", which had over 5.3 million views in its first week. The video was well-received by the female demographic. Her video "How To Avoid Talking To People You Don't Want To Talk To" was featured in an August article in the New York Times and ABC News, in which Mourey was quoted as saying, "I'm sick and tired of guys thinking that just because I showed up at a club or a dance or a bar, that I want to have their genitalia touching my back side," though in the actual video, the word "genitalia" was actually "junk", and the word "back side" was actually "ass." The video has over 17,430,000 views as of January 2012.

As of January 2012, Jenna Marbles's channel has over two million subscribers.

 She is the number 1 most subscribed female and the 10th most subscribed in the world.

 Subscribe to her channel! You will not regret it!

The songs that define my mood.

Over the past few days I have felt like shit. Why, you ask? Boys. There is this one guy. I have never met anyone like him. When I am really super happy, I cry. When I'm with this guy, that is how happy I am. He makes me feel like I am perfect and no one has ever made me feel like that. There are no words to describe how I feel about him. During this first song I told this guy how happy I was with him. (While we were on my bed) So, we decided that it would be 'our' song.

 Lately I have not been speaking to this guy. Don't ask why because I really don't know what happened. So, lately I have been in a real shitty mood. Here are some songs that describe it.

                                                    A little bit stronger. Sara Evens.

                                             Disgusting. Ke$ha

                                               The story of us. Taylor Swift.

                                            Remind me. Carrie Underwood, Brad Paisley.

                                          Misery. Maroon 5.

                                                 It will rain. Bruno Mars.

                                            A thousand years. Christina Perri.

                                            Jar of hearts. Christina Perri.

                                             Bleeding love. Leona Lewis

                                              Arms. Christina Perri.

                                               Just a kiss. Lady Antebellum.

                                           Wish you were here. Avril Lavigne.

                                          When you're gone. Avril Lavigne.

                                           Hurt. Christina Aguilera.

"I have died everyday, waiting for you..."

My closest friends!

I have a bunch of friends, but only a few close ones. I'm here to tell you a little bit about them.

First there are most of the cheerleaders.

(*Left to right* Hannah, Sydney, Chelsi, Katie, Kenzie, Me, Lexi, Livi)
These girls make it easy to laugh when I'm having the worst day.

This is Hannah! (We realized that we were opposites. She has red TOMS and black pants and I vice versa.)

 All of our TOMS...♥

 Little Darrian :) Yeah, She's cute.

 Bre Anna!!!

This is Kenzie....Thug life :)

Two of my best friends (Whom are dating) Audrie and Justin. :)

 

My three friends (Left to right) Kayla, Tighe, and Bekka.

(Left to right) Desiree, Paige, and Lauren.

Well, I hope you enjoyed meeting my friends, they really are something. :)

Fantastic weekend!

 

 Darrian and I

Bre Anna and I

Kenzie and I

This weekend has been so awesome! Usually, my weekends suck ass, so I thought I would tell you about this great weekend! First, I had a game, and well, my friends are there so we always have a good time. Then, Saturday we had another game, and afterward my friend Kenzie was having a party, but I skipped it to have a guy come over, and I am now in love with the song "Halo" by Beyoncé. Then, today I had to wake up early and get on a school bus at 9:45am to go to a competition that our schools competition cheer team was participating. They qualified for state! Whooo! Go knights!

Yeah, they piss me off too.

You know what really will piss a girl off,  but make her happy at the same time? The guy she likes. I don't want guys to take all the blame, but they take the most of it. Sometimes, I have trouble getting into an interesting conversation with this one guy. I also seem to have trouble getting his attention. Here are some tips to help you with the same problem.

1. Be yourself. No one likes fake people. This is the most common tip, but it works.
2. Smile. Its friendly and inviting.
3. Don't obsess. Really. Its creepy.
4. Find out what he is interested in, and talk to him about it. Don't pretend to be interested, though.
5. Make sure you have your own life. If you are busy he might become interested.
6. Don't constantly text him. Have a nice conversation, but if he doesn't text back don't worry. There is always a good reason they didn't text back.
7. Keep the mystery. Don't tell him everything about you all at once, let him figure it out on his own.
8. If it doesn't work out, don't freak. If it doesn't work out don't let that shoot you down. It didn't work for a reason.
9. Don't believe what you hear. Figure it out for yourself.
10. Compliment them. Make them feel good.
11. Make them think of you. Just say hi.

This link has some good tips, but don't over-do it.
7 steps to get him to like you


Love, Sidney